If you want to have a tea party with your grandchildren, because they're all in one place at one time and they have cute wedding clothes cuz their uncle is getting married ...
you make them each an apron so they don't get their special clothes soiled.
crazy you say???
No. It's called "wedding mental therapy". . . .
cuz the mother of the groom has minimal responsibility with maximum anxiety . . . yes, it's a choice :)
chicken nuggets, carrots and string cheese . . . . what else would you expect at a tea party with Nana and Papa??
maybe a cucumber or 2 :)
water, of course :)